The outbursts. The guilt afterwards. The damage to relationships you actually care about. Anger isn’t the real problem — it’s a symptom of something deeper. Let’s find out what.
You’re not a bad person for feeling angry. You’re a person who hasn’t yet learned healthier ways to express pain. We can change that.
Tap any that feel familiar. This isn’t a test — it’s a gentle mirror. If several resonate, talking to a professional could genuinely help.
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Outbursts that feel disproportionate
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Guilt and shame after episodes
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Physical tension, clenched fists
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Shouting at people you love
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Road rage or public incidents
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Going silent as a form of punishment
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Self-medicating to calm down
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Promising to change but repeating
OUR APPROACH
Our Structured Approach
Every approach is tailored to you. No cookie-cutter protocols — just genuine, evidence-based care delivered by chartered professionals who truly understand.
Trigger Mapping
We map your personal anger landscape — triggers, early warning signs, escalation patterns. Most people don't realise their anger starts 20 minutes before they explode. We help you catch it at the spark, not the fire.
De-Escalation Training
Practical, in-the-moment techniques to reduce physiological arousal. These aren't 'count to ten' platitudes — they're neuroscience-backed methods that create real space between trigger and response.
Emotional Intelligence Building
Long-term emotional regulation, assertive communication and healthy expression. The goal isn't suppressing anger — it's transforming it into a force for positive change.
“The body keeps score. When your shoulders carry what your mind cannot say, therapy creates the space to finally put that weight down and breathe again.”
— Dr Bhavna Jaiswal (CPsychol), Founder of Nelumbo Consultancy
Your Journey
What Happens Next
From first contact to lasting change. Here’s exactly what to expect — no surprises, no jargon.
1
Confidential Call
Tell us what’s happening. We hear from people at all stages — from ‘I’m a bit snappy’ to ‘I’ve been given an ultimatum.’ No judgement.
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Anger Profile Assessment
A comprehensive assessment of your anger type, triggers, history and impact. This helps us design precisely the right intervention.
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Personalised Programme
A structured anger management plan combining cognitive techniques with practical behavioural exercises.
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Weekly Sessions
50-minute sessions where we work through triggers, practise responses and build new emotional habits.
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Lasting Change
You leave with genuine self-awareness, practical tools and healthier relationships. Most clients complete the programme in 10-12 sessions.
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Sessions typical programme
90%
Report reduced episodes
80%
Improved relationships
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Free consultation
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“I nearly lost my family because of my temper. Dr Bhavna helped me understand that underneath my anger was years of unprocessed hurt. Addressing that changed everything. My wife says she has a new husband.”
— Michael T., London
You Don't Have to Do This Alone
Your first consultation is completely free. No pressure, no obligation. Just a conversation — because sometimes that’s all it takes to start feeling better.